In a relationship, both have to learn how to give and take..

The relationship wont work when one side always give out and the other always take in..

The one who always give out will have nothing to give one day..

The one who always take in will take the one for granted one day..

One may not wan to be the one who always give out/take in..

The one who give out must learn how to take in..

The one who take in must learn how to give out..

Then the relationship wont to be too boring and die off so quickly..

Try to give some surprises to brighten the relationship..

Dun give too much.. cos too much surprises equal no surprise..